Get the Girl
We all fantasize about the perfect partner whom we can be with for the rest of our lives. We imagine them to be wonderful creatures who'll wipe away our tears, quiet our worried minds, ooze us with love and affection and entertain us with their fun spirit.
Sounds like a movie but I know it has rented a space in your imagination and desires for a long time. I know. More or less.
Yeah, girls are the massive market of these dreamy ideals being conditioned since they're five (years old), thanks to Disney movies!
But you know you are no exemption. You fantasize about Victoria's Secret models as a wife, don't you? Confident, independent beautiful nourishing and fun. If only you can get that kind of girl. But, how?
While there are no perfect answers, allow me to be your girl whisperer and get deep down on the mystery of getting that fantasy bride.
How Do You Get the Woman of Your Dreams?
1. Know Your Type.
Yep. No escaping it, Joe. You can imagine a Beyonce or a Miranda Kerr, a Jennifer Aniston or probably a Pink (who knows?) or a Gal Gadot, but you can't bet on your success rate unless you know your type.
What do you like?
What things or traits do you appreciate?
What matters to you?
What can't you stand about, or without?
Knowing yourself could lead to communicating your gestures clearly to your target "market." Okay, dream ladies.
Which would lead us to the second point,
2. Know What Types of Woman You Attract.
You know what you want but sometimes, if not most of the times, what or who you want is not necessarily the type you attract.
Hopeless romantic, or cognitive dissonance, we don't want the opposite to manifest in our lives. You want what you want and need to show up in your life.
By knowing who you allure, you'll know what points you need to adjust and have control over your "sphere of influence," over who to go for, who to avoid, or what tolerable tweaks you can apply to yourself to redirect your attraction level to the people whom you want to get attention from.
Okay so now that you know both, let's lay out some important facts on your realization here:
You can't force someone to like you. You can only encourage them.
You can't fake liking someone you really are not attracted to and I don't recommend you force yourself to.
Which will lead us to number...
3. Find Someone Who's Just Right For You.
Find the overlap of who you want and who you attract.
Find the reconciliation of two opposing extremes.
What types of women fit your personality type?
Who likes your personality type?
Who do you like whom will fit your personality type?
Getting just the right cup of tea that caters to your wants, needs, and quirks will be a match you will be thankful for because it will most likely lead to a hot and lasting relationship. So, reconcile two extremes-find the Goldilocks spot on those two opposing conditions.
4. Find Out the Other Person's Type: Desires, Quirks, and Level of 'Toleration.'
Find out what she wants, what she needs and what she can tolerate. See if it fits yours just as nice as hers.
5. Be Yourself.
This is cliche but, yes, you still need to check if the girl can have fun around you while you be yourself. I don't mean the horrible things you can do because you need to throw that out of the window regardless if you're looking for a date or looking for a job, we need to be committed to working on making ourselves better people every day. I mean those traits that are true to you. Are you sensitive? Does she observe and respond nicely, or is she rude or passive? Things you need to consider before jumping on the bandwagon for good.
6. Work on Your Quirks.
No one's perfect. You will have parts of yourself you need to improve that will prove to be beneficial for you and your future partner. It will help on building a resistant and resentment proof experience on your dates.
7. Check your Gesture.
Does your action reflect what you want to communicate or convey? You don't want to be misunderstood. And if you'll ever be, you'd have the chance to find out if the girl is sensitive to feelings, if she'd take the time to listen and understand first before judging or jumping to conclusions about your motives. Be cool, don't chase too hard, but be sure to communicate yourself well.
8. Decide!
Move!
Extend gesture and effort. Once you found out she fits your fantasy girl type, starts the drill! But you have to decide if you're going all in or not. Get to know if you can agree with her about a certain level of relationship you want and if she's okay (or committed) with the same. Remember being indecisive is already a decision. All in or all out. That's it.
If nothing works, then the hunt is not over yet! The right gal is just around the corner! Good things come to those who wait, but better things come to those who #hustle!
Click the next button and enjoy the journey!
How to Get the Woman of Your Dreams? ---Figure These Out First!
We all fantasize about the perfect partner whom we can be with for the rest of our lives. We imagine them to be wonderful creatures who'll wipe away our tears, quiet our worried minds, ooze us with love and affection and entertain us with their fun spirit.
Sounds like a movie but I know it has rented a space in your imagination and desires for a long time. I know. More or less.
Yeah, girls are the massive market of these dreamy ideals being conditioned since they're five (years old), thanks to Disney movies!
But you know you are no exemption. You fantasize about Victoria's Secret models as a wife, don't you? Confident, independent beautiful nourishing and fun. If only you can get that kind of girl. But, how?
While there are no perfect answers, allow me to be your girl whisperer and get deep down on the mystery of getting that fantasy bride.
How Do You Get the Woman of Your Dreams?
1. Know Your Type.
Yep. No escaping it, Joe. You can imagine a Beyonce or a Miranda Kerr, a Jennifer Aniston or probably a Pink (who knows?) or a Gal Gadot, but you can't bet on your success rate unless you know your type.
What do you like?
What things or traits do you appreciate?
What matters to you?
What can't you stand about, or without?
Knowing yourself could lead to communicating your gestures clearly to your target "market." Okay, dream ladies.
Which would lead us to the second point,
2. Know What Types of Woman You Attract.
You know what you want but sometimes, if not most of the times, what or who you want is not necessarily the type you attract.
Hopeless romantic, or cognitive dissonance, we don't want the opposite to manifest in our lives. You want what you want and need to show up in your life.
By knowing who you allure, you'll know what points you need to adjust and have control over your "sphere of influence," over who to go for, who to avoid, or what tolerable tweaks you can apply to yourself to redirect your attraction level to the people whom you want to get attention from.
Okay so now that you know both, let's lay out some important facts on your realization here:
You can't force someone to like you. You can only encourage them.
You can't fake liking someone you really are not attracted to and I don't recommend you force yourself to.
Which will lead us to number...
3. Find Someone Who's Just Right For You.
Find the overlap of who you want and who you attract.
Find the reconciliation of two opposing extremes.
What types of women fit your personality type?
Who likes your personality type?
Who do you like whom will fit your personality type?
Getting just the right cup of tea that caters to your wants, needs, and quirks will be a match you will be thankful for because it will most likely lead to a hot and lasting relationship. So, reconcile two extremes-find the Goldilocks spot on those two opposing conditions.
4. Find Out the Other Person's Type: Desires, Quirks, and Level of 'Toleration.'
Find out what she wants, what she needs and what she can tolerate. See if it fits yours just as nice as hers.
5. Be Yourself.
This is cliche but, yes, you still need to check if the girl can have fun around you while you be yourself. I don't mean the horrible things you can do because you need to throw that out of the window regardless if you're looking for a date or looking for a job, we need to be committed to working on making ourselves better people every day. I mean those traits that are true to you. Are you sensitive? Does she observe and respond nicely, or is she rude or passive? Things you need to consider before jumping on the bandwagon for good.
6. Work on Your Quirks.
No one's perfect. You will have parts of yourself you need to improve that will prove to be beneficial for you and your future partner. It will help on building a resistant and resentment proof experience on your dates.
7. Check your Gesture.
Does your action reflect what you want to communicate or convey? You don't want to be misunderstood. And if you'll ever be, you'd have the chance to find out if the girl is sensitive to feelings, if she'd take the time to listen and understand first before judging or jumping to conclusions about your motives. Be cool, don't chase too hard, but be sure to communicate yourself well.
8. Decide!
Move!
Extend gesture and effort. Once you found out she fits your fantasy girl type, starts the drill! But you have to decide if you're going all in or not. Get to know if you can agree with her about a certain level of relationship you want and if she's okay (or committed) with the same. Remember being indecisive is already a decision. All in or all out. That's it.
If nothing works, then the hunt is not over yet! The right gal is just around the corner! Good things come to those who wait, but better things come to those who #hustle!
Click the next button and enjoy the journey!
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